I'd agree with Slayer of Light too, if I wouldn't mind leaving a server behind that is destined to die.... Do you even think before asking for things?
Last time I post this if you didn't get it yet, if they allow transfers from Haven to Ra without closing Haven, the players who didn't get any info about the transfer or didn't want to get transfered to Ra at all will try to play on an even emptier Haven.....
Merge or not, that is here the question. You can forget about transfer, at least if I was NGD I would not allow it, only from Ra to Haven

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